I Still Want To Be With My Ex

If you find yourself saying, “I still want to be with my ex” you aren't alone. There are countless numbers of people who desire to stay in a relationship or get back together with an ex. Just because it seems like there is no hope it doesn't mean that there isn't any. There is still a chance that what you had can come back even stronger. When you are saying “I still want to be with my ex” and you want to get that love back it is going to have to come back stronger if it is going to last.

For those of you saying, “I still want to be with my ex” you may have a desire to turn back the clock and bring back what was lost. Be careful what you ask for, you might just get it but if things aren’t different you may end up with the same result.

You need to examine the mistakes that were made or the issues that drove you apart and figure out how things got to the breaking point. You need to be able to build a stronger foundation than you had before. You are going to have to try and start from ground zero. To get back together with the one you love, you are going to have to try and start all over again. Just find a way to do it better. Tell yourself, "I still want to be with my ex, but I want it to be better than before."

Try re-establishing a friendship. Take it slow. If your ex feels like you are trying to make things like they were, they may be resistant to it. Don't push things, just let things take their natural course. If the two of you are supposed to be together, it will happen. Just let it happen naturally.

Think positively about it. Don't let your ex see you crying or depressed about it. You want to try and make it look like you are a joy to come back to. If your ex sees that you are walking around depressed, they may decide that they don't want to have that in their lives. If they see that for you life has gone on and you are happy they may want to join you in your happiness.

Try to think of what type of person you would like to be with. Do you think that they would want to be with that type of person as well? People want to be with happy people who can brighten their day and make them smile. People want to be with someone who makes them feel that they have a purpose and that they aren't alone. Try to be someone that makes someone feel like that. Make your ex feel special by just being an encouraging friend.

If you make yourself valuable to your ex and are able to make them feel valuable you may have a chance to bring back lost love. You may also be making a foundation that will last forever. It is a good thing to say “I still want to be with my ex.” It is an even better thing to try and make the foundation of that love stronger.