How to Magically Get Your Ex to Respond

How can you get your ex to respond when you have broken up is a complicated and daunting task. I understand what it's like to separate from the person you care for so dearly. Although, every relationship is different the pain felt is pretty much the same. For lack of a better term it stinks. We all hope for a magic wand or perhaps a way to cast a spell on them in hopes they will come back. I don't believe in spells or magic but I do believe there is magic in making up. There are a few ways you can get the magic back.

For starters in order to get your ex to respond, you need to get your ex to return your phone calls, emails or text messages.

Here are some tips for you to think about to help your ex start to respond to you, you know, act like you exist;

1. How about taking out a pad and pen and write an old fashion love letter? I know this sounds outdated but your ex knowing that you took the time to write shows that there is something different going on here. Keep it short and simple. You can start with something like this. "Dear J, I was thinking about you earlier today and I began reflecting on the first time we met". It brought a few tear drops out. It would be great if we could get together for lunch one day to chat. I think it would be fun to catch up".
   
   
2. Show your ex that you are not the same person you use to be. For example, if you were very pushy, annoying, persistent and this drove your ex crazy let them see the new and improved you. Don't leave annoying messages like "J, I assume you got the 11 voice messages and 9 text messages I sent you. Call me today". This sounds like a bill collector. I wouldn't call you back either.


3. Let your ex get positive vibes from the letter, voice or text message you send and give your ex a reason to want to contact you. For example, "Hey J, I just wanted to say thanks for what you gave me and I was hoping I could treat you to lunch". Now, your ex will be curious what you are talking about and won't be able to resist at least finding out what you are talking about. Curious minds always want to know. Of course before you reach out to your ex you need to think about something your ex did that you appreciate. It can be something small that means a lot to you.

Now, these few tips are just suggestions on how to get your ex to respond and want to return your calls, emails or letters. You should get some additional strategies regarding what happens after this works i.e., what do you do when they call?

There is a program called The Magic of Making Up which will give you tips (not tricks) and the strategies you can use to get beyond the return call and begin to restore your relationship.




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I hope this helps you restore the relationship and replace your sadness and pain with joy and peace. You can then use your experience to help another couple get back together.

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